SEMI-DAILY
Musings
About yoga, life, and how hard it is to sit still.
Peace is possible
I know that what we are seeing is not just a massive group of people pushing feelings and discomfort onto others in violence. But it is also that.
The renewal we need
What will the seasons look like for my adult daughter when she grows up? What renewal is possible?
Acting my age
I can’t say that I don’t feel the tug of youth-as-beauty. It is pervasive, almost automatic, and it takes mindfulness and presence to return to the present.
How to sit in acceptance
Yoga says, not “stay as you are,” but rather “when we truly are, we evolve.”
In which I am difficult
Who we are is contextual, in motion, and deeply affected by the narratives in our heads.
Resilience is many things
How do we find the balance between what we should endure and what we really should not.
The rest I need
This time, I tell myself, I want to look at it (even) more realistically, building in (even) more moments of rest.
In celebration of youth (but not like you think)
From where I’m sitting, it looks like Generation Z has what they need to survive. And more.
I went rummaging in the closet
Someone wise once said that humans will do almost anything to avoid being confronted with their own soul. But when we stop avoiding it, we are blown away by awe.
Maybe it skips a generation
My grandmother was ruthlessly honest when she did not understand my fashion or other choices. But she was never dismissive or judgmental.
I am not a stranger
I learned over time. First to feel, then to sort the feelings out from each other, then to express them, and then to accept them without shame.
It is all good
Sometimes, we are given the rare gift of distance. A sense that we can see ourselves from the outside, and that, when we do, it is all good.
In which I dream of the future
This past week, I dreamed I had dinner with someone I have wronged deeply in the past.
The knowledge we hold
We already know how to halt the warming of the planet. We already know how to not burn out. We already know how to love each other.
The choices we have
We can’t ever choose someone else’s response. Only our own. But in that choice is a latent universe of freedom, empathy, and love.
Can’t go back now
We can’t go back. We can’t go forward. We can just be. One long string of nows, each one a possibility to love.
Clearing out, moving on
There is spaciousness in my closets and in my chest. I treasure that.
A death in the family
Guilt is not a good way to move through life. It can be a motivator for change, but it is the release of guilt that actually makes change happen.